Not Married, Not Bothered

Who Says You Need a Ring to Be Complete?

Not Married, Not Bothered by Carol Clewlow, published by HarperCollins in 2005, is a bold, honest, and often laugh-out-loud exploration of single life in a world obsessed with coupledom. Part memoir, part social commentary, this empowering book challenges the idea that happiness only comes with a wedding dress and a “happily ever after.”

Through her own experiences and the stories of women throughout history—famous and forgotten—Clewlow offers a refreshing perspective on what it means to be single and content. From resisting societal pressure to debunking the myth of the lonely spinster, she celebrates the freedom, strength, and satisfaction that comes from living life on your own terms.

Witty, sharp, and full of heart, Not Married, Not Bothered is a celebration of independence that resonates with readers of all ages—whether you're single by choice, chance, or simply curious about a different kind of love story.

Perfect for fans of Caitlin Moran and Nora Ephron, this is a liberating read for anyone who’s ever been asked, “So, when are you getting married?”—and thought, “Actually, I’m doing just fine.”